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This is a safe space to talk about identity! Need help figuring out your sexuality? Want to test out new pronouns? This is the place to do so!

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  1. Foamtail Avatar

    THIS IS SUCH A COOL IDEA WHAT ??? I love this so much I wish the blog had something like this <333

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    1. Redfawn Avatar

      I’m so glad you like it! It was Silv’s idea c:

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  2. Aurorasong Avatar

    Well, we all have different sexualities and pronouns, but I, Leah go by she/any and am bisexual

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  3. Snowzo the Swiftie Avatar

    I love this place!! 😀

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  4. Eclipse Avatar

    I go by she/her pronouns and I am bisexual but also aroace (it’s hard to explain 😅)

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  5. Loo Avatar

    Hi guys! What’s ur sexuality, gender, and pronouns? I’m currently questioning if I’m on the aroace spectrum, but I think I’m heterosexual. I’m cisfem, and my pronouns are she/her c:

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    1. Eclipse Avatar

      Hi! I’m aroace, bisexual (don’t ask me how both can be true at once, for i do not know.), female, and go by she/her pronouns!

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      1. Icepaw/bloom🦋aka loo Avatar

        Cool! I actually don’t think being bi & aroace at once is crazy; aroace is a spectrum, for example, if you were demiromantic, the people who you build strong enough relationships with to develop romantic feelings might only be boys and girls, which would mean you could be bi and aroace! Also, do you have any tips for figuring out if you’re aroace? I think I am, I’m still questioning.

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        1. Eclipse Avatar

          Well, its different for everyone, but I’ll share some of what helped me: Remember that being aroace is a very wide spectrum. You could have a crush on someone/be in a relationship but still be aroace bc your feelings aren’t very strong, or you don’t normally feel attraction. Try looking at a bunch of orientations, see if there is one that you feel fits more to what you’re feeling. At the same time, don’t worry about finding the perfect label. What you feel might change over time, and thats okay. If you think ur aroace rn, then go ahead and label urself aroace. But if thatr changes later, go ahead and change ur label.

          idk if this helped at all, but i hope it did :3

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  6. Loo Avatar

    Oh and, any advice for figuring out if I’m aroace? I’ma go look at some deductions on en.pronouns.page in a sec

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  7. Icepaw/bloom🦋aka loo Avatar

    I finally figured out where I am on the ace and arospec! I’m:
    Asexual
    Grayromantic
    Acemid
    Angled aroace
    I still think I’m heteroromantic as well
    It feels oddly comforting to have a name for my experience in attraction, like I somehow fit somewhere. I acknowledge that I’m only 12 and this could change over time, and I’m ok with that! It feels good to know who I am right now.
    IVE JOINED THE GAYS HAHAHAHHAHAH
    going to update my pronouns page now

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  8. Aurorasong Avatar

    Okay, Rory here

    Sapphic

    Demigirl

    Asexual

    Demiromantic

    This are all the labels I feel comfortable with

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